Find and Explore your Fantasies!
I have been a connoisseur of porn on the internet for over 10 years and I have realized one thing more than anything else. We do not know who we are! We all love sex and we have been doing it as much as we can for the majority of our lives, but we don’t really know what we like. What we call “Our Fantasies” the Adult Industry calls “Niche’s.” We use terms like Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bi- Sexual, Gay, Lesbian, and much much more to explain who we are, but all we do is limit ourselves by owning one of these terms.
If we call ourselves “Heterosexual,” which a vast majority of this society does then that is how we have to live. I am Heterosexual and I like Women or if I was a women I like men and that is all I can talk about, I can only flirt with, and that who I am. There is no deviation from this. I can only find women attractive, I can only enjoy hanging out with a woman, if I am hanging out with other men that is pretty much all I can talk about, women, that is who I am.
Society has done this to us; we are who society makes us out to be.
It is time to break that mold and be who you really are…”NO MORE LABELS!!!”
When you tell yourself that there are no labels you are free to explore who you really are; explore your fantasy or what we will call it your “Niche.” This does not have to be public at all this is for you to explore, not for someone to judge you for, enjoy it.
Let’s start this with steps. Start by going to HotXFlix.com and looking at all the categories that they have: (I have provided you with all of the categories right here)
Now look at every single one of the categories when you are online on the site through a drop down menu on the left hand side of the site. This site will have all of the Niches that basically are there and the ones that are not on that list will be on the subcategory list when you click on the niche or the fetish is just plain illegal. You will find out exactly what you like just by looking at this site. There are thousands of movies on this site and they are all subdivided into the “Niches” that you looking at on the left side of the site.
Here is your homework assignment. No don’t do this at work, you don’t want to get into trouble. You can do this wither when you are horny and excited and you need some relief if you know what I mean or when you just curious. Go on the site and choose a couple of Niches to look into. Now you will not arbitrarily go to this site and look at everything, you need to look at the niches one at a time and look at the box tops (the Video/DVD Box Covers of the films) and then the thumbnails of the scenes (most will have four to five thumbnails per scene) and look for something that kind of does it for you.
There will be Niches and movies that you see that normally you would not even think about looking into but give each niche its time. Look into each niche and watch a couple clips from each of the movies and see if it does anything for you. This process will take a little bit of time, but it will be worth it in the long run. You will soon discover that there are Niches in this world that you didn’t even think about, but you are into them. This is when the process gets fun. You get to explore these niches and find out your favorites and everyday there will be something else.
I will continue to talk about this subject just look for a new blog in the next couple of days called “No Labels – Just Be Yourself.”
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