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Today we are talking about Lubricant. What type of lubricant is the best to use and why? What factors do you look for in a lube? Why should I use lube or should I not use lube? Is lube for me? What brands are the most popular? Well today I will answer those very questions.

There are a few types of lube: silicone, water-based, flavored, and warming. I am going to focus on silicone and water-based lubricant, but I will explain edible and warming.

Edible lubricant is something that women cringe at when they hear it because there is no such thing as edible lubricant, but surprisingly flavored or edible lube is not that bad. There are a few different flavors, mainly fruit flavors and I was told it doesn’t taste that bad. Warming Lubricant is just that it warms up. A lot of times the lube will just gradually warm up with time of using it. This process will be a great deal faster than warming up lube in play.

The big question of many people that I talk to are “should I use silicone or water-based lubricant?” This question is very simple, but at the same time very complicated. There are many reasons to go for one as opposed for the other.

Water-based lubricant is the most popular lube, mainly because it is the cheapest. Water-based lubricant is faster to clean up, only takes a little bit of water and a cloth and all of the residue is gone. The positives are the clean-up of course, condom safe, a refreshing feeling, and most people really enjoy the feeling of water-based lubricant.

Silicone Lubricant, a new found love for me and most of my friends use silicone now too. Silicone lubricant has a little bit of an oily feeling. Because silicone is used to lube many things: garage door tracks, door hinges, bicycle chains, and much more because it creates a smooth surface almost everywhere. This will do the same for you, you will use less lubricant and the feeling is so much smoother than water-based lube.

When I started asking people why they preferred silicone lube, which most of the adult industry is using, I asked why they like silicone lube more than water-based lube? The answer I got was kind of surprising because it didn’t have to do with sex as much as I thought it would. The answer was the feeling of silicone is much smoother afterward, or I like the feeling on my skin, my skin is softer, my hands are softer, my member is softer, the sensation is kept very sensitive after I use this type of lubricant. There are many reasons why people use it, but you need to find out for yourself what works for you.

I suggest you go to a local novelty shop and buy a couple samples of each type: silicone and water-based. There are a couple brands that are the most popular: ID, Wet, and Gun Oil. Try one from each brand using their silicone version and their water-based version.

My personal favorite brand is “Gun Oil” and their silicone version is awesome. On a side note your hands and uh-hum will be softer than they ever have been once use start using Silicone Lubricant.

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I have been a connoisseur of porn on the internet for over 10 years and I have realized one thing more than anything else. We do not know who we are! We all love sex and we have been doing it as much as we can for the majority of our lives, but we don’t really know what we like. What we call “Our Fantasies” the Adult Industry calls “Niche’s.” We use terms like Heterosexual, Homosexual, Bi- Sexual, Gay, Lesbian, and much much more to explain who we are, but all we do is limit ourselves by owning one of these terms.

If we call ourselves “Heterosexual,” which a vast majority of this society does then that is how we have to live. I am Heterosexual and I like Women or if I was a women I like men and that is all I can talk about, I can only flirt with, and that who I am. There is no deviation from this. I can only find women attractive, I can only enjoy hanging out with a woman, if I am hanging out with other men that is pretty much all I can talk about, women, that is who I am.

Society has done this to us; we are who society makes us out to be.

It is time to break that mold and be who you really are…”NO MORE LABELS!!!”

When you tell yourself that there are no labels you are free to explore who you really are; explore your fantasy or what we will call it your “Niche.” This does not have to be public at all this is for you to explore, not for someone to judge you for, enjoy it.

Let’s start this with steps. Start by going to HotXFlix.com and looking at all the categories that they have: (I have provided you with all of the categories right here)

Now look at every single one of the categories when you are online on the site through a drop down menu on the left hand side of the site. This site will have all of the Niches that basically are there and the ones that are not on that list will be on the subcategory list when you click on the niche or the fetish is just plain illegal. You will find out exactly what you like just by looking at this site. There are thousands of movies on this site and they are all subdivided into the “Niches” that you looking at on the left side of the site.

Here is your homework assignment. No don’t do this at work, you don’t want to get into trouble. You can do this wither when you are horny and excited and you need some relief if you know what I mean or when you just curious. Go on the site and choose a couple of Niches to look into. Now you will not arbitrarily go to this site and look at everything, you need to look at the niches one at a time and look at the box tops (the Video/DVD Box Covers of the films) and then the thumbnails of the scenes (most will have four to five thumbnails per scene) and look for something that kind of does it for you.

There will be Niches and movies that you see that normally you would not even think about looking into but give each niche its time. Look into each niche and watch a couple clips from each of the movies and see if it does anything for you. This process will take a little bit of time, but it will be worth it in the long run. You will soon discover that there are Niches in this world that you didn’t even think about, but you are into them. This is when the process gets fun. You get to explore these niches and find out your favorites and everyday there will be something else.

I will continue to talk about this subject just look for a new blog in the next couple of days called “No Labels – Just Be Yourself.”

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So people are asking me how to meet people online. Let me start by saying this is a little bit complicated to explain, but much easier to do than most would think. Here is what most people think that will find them someone online: there are people that see commercial on their television that talk about eharmony, plentyoffish, or match dot com. These are places to go, but people that I know and people that I have met have never met someone that they will call “OF VALUE” from these sites. I have no problem with these sites, but people I know have not been lucky on these sites.

This is the age of Social Networking, in social networking you are able to get your name and face to a whole lot of people in a short period of time. We have many social networking sites that are available to you today that you can start looking into and get your name out there. Because many people have asked about the technique for finding someone online I am going to spend some time coming up with a scheme or technique from asking people who have been successful finding people online. Now this technique will be a combination of a few people’s techniques and won’t work with everyone. You might even be one of the few people that this scheme doesn’t work with, but most likely you are not and you should give it a shot.

Look for it…It will be called “Meet Girls Online.”

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High Definition Videos or what I will call High Tech Porn. This type of video is very clear and you can see everything like you are right there at the shoot.

It is funny there was a lot of talk about this type of quality in porn movies. A lot of you know that there are a lot of little video editing that happens in porn. We all have bodies in this world and no one is perfect, even though I have met a few porn models that are absolutely perfect, they are an anomaly more that an everyday occurrence. We all have our bad days, models have their bad days too. Razor burn, new fabric softener, new cloths, an exciting time the night before; for whatever reason there are blemishes and possibly acne every once in a while.

When you watch a porn movie in HD you will see every single blemish. A lot of us that work in the Adult Industry thought that it would be a bad thing and maybe the fans would not like it, but I have to tell you the videos that are coming out are fantastic. Being able to see the video’s in HD are even better than being at the shoot. They are fantastic videos and you can see the Porn Actors for what they are and that makes it more personable to watch.

I enjoy watching porn just like the next guy, I have seen shoots, I have been in shoots, and watching the video’s in HD is even better then being there. The models are absolutely beautiful, the blemishes are there but they are not in your face like I thought they would be and that is fantastic. There are a few sites that really show HD well, HD Porn Videos , this site is fantastic. I personally know the owner of this website and she is dedicated to getting you porn in High Definition and making sure that you are taken care of completely. The owner is a person high up in the Adult Industry and a supporters of making sure that you, the customer, is getting exactly what you should and there is no trickery. I like this site because the content is completely unique, the models are very hot, and there are more than a few niches that are being showed on this site. I recommend it to you and I am a very hard critic.

So now you know about the pro’s and the con’s of HD sites when it regards to quality. Now let’s talk about how this really affects you, the customer. HD makes porn viewing a little different on the internet. Something that I noticed right away was that many of the video’s that you used to watch in the Internet Browsers are not being downloaded because the files are so huge with HD Porn you are able to watch the films right there on the net and that is awesome, but many other sites like Massage-Parlor.com that when you login to your account you have the choice to download a regular video or an HD video and it takes about 40min to an hour in a half to download a video if you are on broadband. The good thing about the site other than the fact it has fantastic content is that you can download about 8 videos without slowing down your system.

The bottom line for you is that you are getting better quality and not paying anymore of it. You are able to download your videos or watch them online which ever you prefer, but you will be seeing more sites start downloading the videos then letting you watch them online. The plus to you downloading the content is the sites want you to come back so they update the site with new video’s fairly often. I recommend HD Porn Videos. You will really enjoy the content and you have now worry about your money being taken, you will get what they promise you.

BTW, if you like Massage Parlor type porn check out this HD Indecent Massage Site, it is run by the same owner of the HD Porn Videos.

Till next time…

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Here is the extra Blog Posting about ImLive. The plus and the minus of this Live Sexy Cam Site all for you to see and all for free. See what you get just by looking at this blog. ImLive.com is the biggest Live Sexy Cam Site in the world by far. They have been around for about 10 years and their claim to fame is that they will work with just about any country and they only charge their clients for the time that they are in the private area of the webcam model. This is not the first site that started the Live Sexy Cam experience, but this site is considered the Pioneer of the Web Cam Model Success.

ImLive is run like a search engine, let’s call it the Google of the Adult Live Sex Cams. They have countless categories of women, men, and transsexuals from all over the country. They also reward their customers for going to their sites. Their customers not only get something called “Happy Hour Credits” for every Premium credit that they buy, but the more the customer buys the status gets upgraded and free stuff start coming. It starts with low Happy Hour Credit and then gets higher and higher, of course within reason.

All of the models are ranked by their popularity and the votes that they get by their customers. Then to add to all of that there are contests and Awards given to different Live Sexy Cam Models for a wide variety of acts and talents.

When you go to ImLive you are asked to register with a credit card. This is the way that ImLive verifies that you are of legal age and that you are a paying customer. Whether you pay or not, the system will now consider you a paying customer. This is your choice of course, but after you go to the site and register buy the lowest amount of credits you can buy. The system is very secure it uses the most popular third party merchant services and this benefits you because this fact makes the secure credit card purchases that much more secure.

I will understand if you do not want to buy the lowest amount of credits you can buy, but if you can afford it buy the lowest amount of credits, which right now is $50.00. When I first starting going to this site ten years ago the minimum was $25.00 dollars, it has increased since then. What this does is now that you have credits in the system you are able to see the Live Sexy Cam Girls pictures throughout the site, if you decided not to get the credits, which I completely understand because you are still just evaluating the site, you will not be able to see most of the pictures on the webcam models fan sites. Each Model gets a website to put pictures and information up about them and they also allow fans to become dedicated members which saves you even more money because you get discounted rates and the models give you perks.

So for the people that are reading this blog and decided that you wanted to get the credits, you have a load of fantastic pictures at your disposal to do what you want with (wink wink). This fact also gives you more of a chance to evaluate the models that you want to see more off because you get to see their pictures for as long as they have been on the site which for a couple of the models are ten years.

ImLive also does contests every week following the event of the United States, for Mardis Gras there are bead type contests, and for fourth of July decorate yourself with American Pride, or for the Olympics decorate yourself with the Olympic Rings. There are so many of them it is so fun to see the next contest or the last contest. For a long time all I did was paid attention to these contests and it was fun for me because I was able to see videos from all the top winners for a price of FREE. These Live Sexy Models are then able to get Awards for winning these contests.

Then there are the evaluations that the Live Sexy Cam Models receive. For every time that someone gets off Private from one of the Live Sexy Cam Models they are asked to do a survey of their time with the model. From the looks of it and talking with some of the Key People of this site more than 25 percent of the people leaving a Private Chat will in fact fill out this form and most of the time write comments about the model that you can read on their fan site.

ImLive also has a category system that separates all of their Live Sexy Cam Models into their own category from their major category: Female, Male, or Gender Bender, to the more finer categories, Home Alone Girl, Fetish to their hair color, breast size and even what nationality of the Live Sexy Cam Model.

Almost forgot, you are probably still wondering what “Happy Hour” is and I have not explained it yet. It is not the time for the Live Sexy Cam model to drink for half off like in a club or bar. “Happy Hour” for ImLive is times when models essentially go to free chat with proven clients. When a client, you, is buying time you receive “Happy Hour” credits. These are free credits that allow you to be able to see the model and the model knows that you are a bona fide paying customer looking to find another model. This is the only time in “Free” chat that you are able to look at the model without paying and get to know them. This is a minus, but the “Happy Hour Credits” make it at least a little better. Being able to talk to a model in completely free chat is an awesome feature in ImLive, but we will talk about that later.

So what does all this mean to you…When you are looking for a Live Sexy Cam Model this is one of the places to go. You can go into the site, register and find a Live Sexy Cam Model to look at, get to know, start enjoying a little intimate time all in a short period of time. You can find exactly who you want to look at by looking at their categories and then even within your exact niche or style you will find half dozen or more models that can suit your needs.

The way I go into a site like this is when I am looking at the categories I start by looking at the “Hall of Fame” models and these models have gotten the highest ratings for “Now” and that is a good thing because that means that they are completely Hot, have a great bedroom personality, or they have both and what I look for in a Live Sexy Cam Model are two qualities a fantastic Bedroom Personality and they have to be Utterly Completely Girl Next Store HOT.

Well I hoped you like this informative article about ImLive. Enjoy every minute of it and if you want to see a little bit different of a flavor look at ImLive. They both have what you need, but you find out which one suits you and when it suits you. Till next time….which will be very soon considering this is an EXTRA post of the day.

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Now you know what types of Adult Interactive Entertainment exists with Live Sexy Cam Sites and now it is time to find which one to go to I suggest start looking at, Livebods and ImLive, both are fantastic cam sites and they have a lot to offer.

Livebods is a fantastic sites for many reasons: hot women that are very personable. The women on this site are fantastic for conversation and really want to make you happy. There are fantastic women on this site. I spent hours talking to a few models, namely Kendra, but I also talked to a few of the other models and they just talked to me like I have been there friend for years. When I started to get excited and it was time to go into private there was very little transition between the free and the private and since I was already talking to them and watching them in Free Chat it was very easy to continue into Private for not that much money at all. This site had the lowest prices of many sites that on the web that I have seen.

The facts are the site uses proprietary webcam software that allows HD and high quality camera footage transmit to even dialup computers and still keep great quality. This is one of the few sites that lets you see the models when you are still in free chat. That is a fantastic thing because I now can see and hear the model when I am trying to figure out if I want to go into private with her. I looked at five models when I was on this site last and spend about 20 minutes going back and forth before I decided to go talk to Kendra and she was not only a great girl, but a fantastic personality when I went into the Private chat with her, if you know what I mean. She got me excited quick. There are fewer models in Livebods then other sites that I have been to, but they are on a great deal and they know me and I know them. So plus or minus, it can be taken either way.

ImLive, is a great site as well. ImLive has a great deal of content as well. The models are plenty. Last time I was on the site there were about 10 categories of women and each category was broken down into about 5 subcategories and further. The site has an outrageous amount of webcam models from all over the world. These models are from every country basically with the main ones from the United States, South America, England, and Russia. There are many from other places but these are the main countries that I saw when I was there last. If you want a woman with brunette hair and big boobs then this is the place to go because you can get very specific with the women that you want to see or guys if that is your thing. Don’t get me wrong this is a great site, but because of the amount of Live Sexy Cam Models on this site most of them are not personable. The models are there to show their bodies, they are not there to get to know you. There are very few that are there to get to know you, but they are so busy all the time it is hard to find some one on one time with them. The bottom line is that you will find something you like on this site, but don’t expect them to try to get to know you and don’t forget the tips from my blog The Personality of a Live Sexy Cam Model.

There are plus and minus’s to both Livebods and ImLive, but they both will suit most of your needs. Livebods will provide you with someone that will want to get to know you, not waste any of your money and show you a great time; Imlive will show you a wide range of women from all over but don’t expect the models to get to know you and they will not think twice about wasting your money or time. Think about both choices, but this is not life or death you will have fun with either choice.

Stay tuned I have an extra blog coming out explaining a little bit more about Live Sexy Cam Models from Imlive.

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 What you need to know about Live Sexy Cam sites. I have been going to Adult Entertainment webcam sites for the past ten years. They have changed with each year but essentially the sites are run the same with new Models, but the same management. I have some tips and trick to these sites and you can benefit from my experience.

Every Live Sexy Cam site is based on the same principle there are women out there in this world that are comfortable taking off their cloths for the benefit of making money. They are teachers, lawyers, models, stay at home mothers, students, and “professionals.” The most common thing about all of the women that I talked to on these site are that they have dollars signs in their eyes. They are all on the internet for money. I repeat, I don’t care what they say they are all on the internet for money.

Knowing why the models are on the internet is a very important step because knowing this will benefit you to the point that you can have more interactive conversations with these models without thinking that they will be your girlfriend, future wife, or future ex-wife. These models are making money everytime someone goes into private with them.

There are a few different types of Live Sexy Cam sites:

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Alright so I have been getting many questions about Video On Demand or VOD lately.  I talk with many people about what the internet can offere them when it comes to porn and I start saying words like Video On Demand or VOD and I get the “huh look.”  People ask me what I am talking about when i say video on demand.  Well, here is your guide to what video on demand is and what it can do for you.

Video on Demand, I will refer to as VOD, is like pay-per-view but for internet porn.  Here is the kicker though, you don’t have to pay for the whole movie like pay-per-view you only have to pay for the minimum amount of time you use.  In the Adult Industry we call this the Conent Management System or Pay per minute service.  Honestly with the technology that my friends and I are using you really are paying per second but PPS just sounds weird so we still use the saying pay per minute. 

The content managament system allows you to watch your favorite porn movies, check out fetishes (whether you are exploring or you know you like it), see a porn model that is coming to your town, get your “Rocks” off, or just have fun with friends.  Yes I did say have fun with friends. 

Lets talk about what all this means to you.  You want to watch a porn movie or see something done sexually but you dont want to don your black hat and trench coat to go to the local sex shop and be that creepy person walking in not talking to anyone and trying to get your video and get out of there as soon as possible without making eye contact with anybody.  i am not saying you do that but that is the extreme that some of my friends go to so that they don’t get recognized.  Everybody likes sex and you shouldn’t have to worrry about people seeing you (but that is for a different discussion).

So back to VOD, so you get to go onto a Adult Video On Demand site and you think that I don’t want to spend money to browse titles.  Here is the fun part, to get into the site it is completely free. You don’t even have to register if you don’t want to…so look at the videos, read the descriptions, see the thumbnails in the video description area all WITHOUT even registering.  So you are looking for a little while and you start seeing what you like, and honeslty with 70 plus categories everyone will see something they like and get a little (or a lot) excited.  Lets register…

Registering does not mean you are spending one dime it just gives you a login and now you can save your favorite videos, favorite scenes, or even favorite porn stars.  Yes, you heard me right you don’t even have to pay a dime for this service and if a website says you do then go to another one, you don’t need to pay a dime for this services.  Most will ask you for a credit card to verify your age, but that is a legal thing (2257 complience) so don’t worry about it, nothing will be charged after they verify your age. 

So, you have registered you have found your favorite niche, or a few movies, maybe your favorit porn star and now you are ready to “take care of yourself.”  I suggest you start off really small becuase so far you have not seen the quality of video with any site and I like the quality of most of the VOD sites but I have my preferences too.  So start off small by buying 15 minutes for 3.95.  If you are gung ho there is 1000 minutes for 84.95, but lets start off with only an investment of $3.95. 

Here is an admin note you need to have Real player or Windows Media Player installed in your computer already.  Most of your computers will already have them that is why I didn’t talk about this before, but I want to make sure you all have the right information from here.

So, you find a video that you like and you want to watch them.  You could just press play but then why would you need me.  Your Own Special Porn Guinee Pig.  LOL, So make sure that you check the rate at which your video will play, I suggest if your video says “Premium” then you should put it at high.  I would suggest you put it one lower then what ever setting the system automatically put the video on and this will make the video much smoother but with a little less quality.  If you can find this look on the top right of the video page and it will say the my connection speed in yellow (options are Low, Medium, High,and Premium).

Now the questions that no one answers this is normally something you hope but never are told about.

Lets Start:

1.If you pause will the time continue to Charge? No

2. If I fast forward to another part of the scene or another scene will I get charged for the time I passed in the scene? No

3. If I rewind will I get charged for the time I rewind? No

The Facts:

1. You only get charged for the time that you are watching the video.

2.  The system is just a program sometimes you have to reload a video, the messup will not cause you to have any extra time be charged to your account.

3.  The VOD sites want you to be happy, if something ever happens and you feel it wasn’t right or just don’t understand it send an email to customer service for the site.  When in doubt or can’t find the email of the site put “info” at the begining of the the email address then the “@” sign and then the url of the site.  This will be “info@whatever.com.”

So that is about it for VOD Sites for right now…I will have more for you soon.

There are too many people in this world that don’t have enough places to look for tips, tricks, and just general information on how to find a great Live Sexy Cam or web cam site. There are many out there but out of the many there are few that can be trusted to give you what you need when you need it. I am here to show everyone that is either interested in finding a place to see beautiful women strip for them but also show the women where to go to get a great paying job meeting great and polite clients.

There are a few things to start with so here we go. When you are looking for a great place to go for women that will do what you want and also work theirs and your imagination you start by looking at their profiles on the sites that you see them. A lot of the times when you go through their profiles you will see multiple pictures of them, look for the more grainy pictures or the pictures that do not look like modeling pictures and these pictures will show you what you are in store for while talking to them. It is not that important for looks as much, because honestly, quite frankly if you are this far you already like what the woman looks like and you are turned on by them already. So by this time you are looking for the right personality that will work for you. Look at any and all photos that the model has on their site and look for the one that you really think is looking at you and then put in some factors. What do you look for in a woman, what do you want in the bedroom, what really turns you on and tell yourself can this girl do it for me if she says the right things.

BTW, if you are lucky enough to be one of the people that don’t care what a women says than you are in luck all you have to do is look for the webcam model that looks at you. The one that has the look that says you want to get off watching this woman do anything you want them to do…back to the other 80% of the people out there. So you are looking at all these women and you tell yourself that they are all looking at you, they are all hot. That is when you have to get crafty…Let’s start out with some ambiguous rules that will help you. We don’t have to understand them all the abide by them but they will help you in the long run.

Remember take the rules you want to use and ignore the ones you don’t except for the first three rules…